Why you should be thankful for dating the wrong guy?

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Relationships, dating, it’s fun at the start but with time, we lose. All that charm, love, beauty of being together, all that which seemed wonderful, it becomes underestimated. There comes in drama and heartbreaks. But remember, there is always one thing that a bad relationship teaches you, “The one in sight, wasn’t your Mr Right.” So, what to do? Where to go? How to overcome the time lost? Most importantly, was the person even worth the time?

All are worth the time, be it good or bad, they are all meant to teach and this is what our dating the wrong guy gives us. It gives a lesson. It gives an idea to wave a hand and say goodbye just with that one trait we see in our future. Either way, we must always be thankful for every person, even dating the wrong guy.

Reasons for thanking your past dates

Do not find a reason to thank them, think of it, there are dozens. Here is a list of 8 important ways they help us to be “US”.

1-You learn to value your own time. Yes, you do not feel comfortable around people looking for flings and short conversations. It’s like you can read their mind even before getting close to them. Trust it and lookout for a better future.

2-With your dating experiences with the bad guys, it is easy for you to determine, whether the other one is serious this time. Be aware. Surprise them, even before they do.

3-For those who want, they will come out and care and love and show how they feel for you. They will find time even on the busiest of day. Welcome them with open hands.

4-We learn to keep our boundaries. Even before a relationship reaches to be a compromise, our experience makes us back out and this not accept less than deserved.

5-Long gone are the time for an excuse as for today, we have our phones to amuse. The phone is the biggest help for today’s dates. A simple text can help determine the difference between an excuser and an actual stuck situation. Keep an eye.

6-Relationships, dating, all of it is meant to make you happy.“For ones who make you cry, they do not deserve to be in a relationship with thy.”

7-You learn to trust actions more than words. You know what you deserve and how you are to be treated. Knowing your worth can be the real gain from dating a wrong guy.

8-All the said above, it’s a means to overcome what seems to be a lost cause. One needs to know, “Who you give your heart, should be completely your life’s part,

 

 

Why You Should be Thankful for Your Lazy Mood

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Yes, it is completely OK to be in a lazy mood at times. Every dark night is followed by a shining sun. So, every time you feel lazy, get ready to see the gangster in you the next day 😉

  • Science says laziness helps lower blood pressure levels. Are you actually stressed out and think you might have an elevated blood pressure level? Well, you need a break then.
  • You reboot your computer after you think it ain’t functioning well. The same is the case with you, pal. Go mute, get a reboot!
  • I would turn on my Netflix and watch F.R.I.E.N.D.S. again and again whenever I feel lazy. I’ve accepted I’m not a bot. You do that too.
  • Certain tasks may make you go haywire. Sit down bud, don’t be a stud, it’s OK to go thud. Lazy people have the best problem-solving skills in town. Get lazy, and the mazy may become easy.
  • Appreciate laziness when it approaches you. It makes you productive.
  • Sometimes your lazy mood can get you into something boosting like looking for passive income options, and God alone knows, maybe I become your best friend in future 😉
  • Feeling lazy? Find a lazy-day entertainment. Get a massage, take a bubble bath, read a book, or the best of all, just take a nap.

Gratitude Story from New York City

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If you wanted to send a thank-you note to someone in your life, who would it be, and what is one of your best memories of that person? Deepika Korani is a high school student from New York City. Her parents, like many other New Yorkers, are not from New York City, however. “My mom would definitely be the person I want to thank.” Deepika said, her braces adding to the bright and cheerful smile as she talked about her mother. “She grew up in India and she didn’t really care about school, mostly because she thought she would just live there—and that she would just be a housewife.” Deepika then took a moment to add that it was a common acceptance in India that a woman would become a housewife, and not to as expected to have a career like in America. “And then we moved here to New York City…and my brother went to college and she had to get a job as a preschool teacher.” Korani smiled, “I like the children she works with though, they love her so much and she loves teaching them! They always draw cute pictures and she brings them home sometimes to hang on the fridge and share with me and my brother.” She said, then continued. “But even though it seems great now, my mom had to enter something completely different and new at that time just to support us and stuff so …I’m really thankful for that everyday.” (NYC, USA)

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Gratitude Story from the United Kingdom

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If you wanted to send a thank-you note to someone in your life, who would it be, and what is one of your best memories of that person? "I want to send a thank-you note to my grandfather. I remember you since I remember myself as a person! From that point onward, I have memories of when I got home from school and ran towards you, asking for your blessing, and you gave me a kiss on the hand; I remember the crowd of people in your office every day. I remember all the Christmases in your company, how you preserved the family union, the affection and love that you always gave us, as your daughters. I knew I could always count on you. But mostly, I remember the awesome stories you've told, full of wisdom, that taught me a lot and helped me to see you as the hero you were! A hero that risked his own life to save his son, one that was in war with the mission to save lives.A hero as a father, as a grandfather, as a friend, and as a doctor!Thank you, Grandpa Costa." (United Kingdom) …… #gratitude #gratitudeattitude #thanks #thankyou #blessing #digithanks #unitedkingdom #heartsign #storytelling #storyteller

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Gratitude Story from Hungary

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Mária Garád If you wanted to send a thank-you note to someone in your life, who would it be, and what is one of your best memories of that person? "I want to thank to my husband, Péter.  We have been married for forty-one years, and life has been like a poem with him. We are living together and keeping our love, respect, and family ties intact. One recent memory I have of him is the trip from which we just returned today.  I would like to thank my dearest husband for taking me again to Hallstatt, Austria. He had taken me there first on our honeymoon, forty-one years ago.  The landscape was one like the ones described in fairy tales.  We enjoyed the beauty of nature and refreshed our love in the same place. We had fun, walked around, had dinner there as we rewound our memories. It was unforgettable. We love traveling and exploring new places together every year." ………….. Péter Garád If you wanted to send a thank-you note to someone in your life, who would it be, and what is one of your best memories of that person? "I am very grateful to my wife, Mária, for being a part of my life for the past forty-one years. I also would like to thank her for accompanying me on our last trip to Hallstatt, Austria. She was a kindergarten teacher. So she mirrored that mother part of herself in our life together by being a good wife, mother, and grandmother. I am kind of fond of her for this tenderness. Yes, now she is retired, but still takes care of her three grandchildren.  Besides, even I feel deeply that kindness she uses to guide a kid to demonstrate the meaning of the life. Our best memory was our honeymoon in Hallstatt, Austria. So it is no coincidence that we wished to feel the same atmosphere there, even years later.  Forty-one years ago in Hallstatt, on our second day of our honeymoon, we rented a boat to see that amazing landscape closer, but we couldn’t predict the rainy weather that started suddenly after a couple of minutes while we were still on the boat.  We both got wet under the heavy rain until we arrived at our hotel." (Hungary)

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Gratitude Story from Copenhagen, Denmark

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If you wanted to send a thank-you note to someone in your life, who would it be, and what is one of your best memories of that person? "I would like to thank my parents for everything because if it wasn’t for them,I wouldn’t be able to travel from the Philippines and do this road trip in Europe. I would like to especially thank my dad, Roberto (people call him Boyet.) Even though he is in the Philippines recovering from a health problem and I am in Copenhagen, I think of him every day. I would like to thank him for all of his financial help and for giving me the opportunity to travel around Europe. The best memory I have of him is from Valentine’s Day last year. I usually don’t receive gifts on this day and it was the first time my daddy gave me present; a teddy bear. During breakfast he just came down in the kitchen and said “look, I have a little teddy bear for you.” I was so surprised that my reaction was “wow, it’s so sweet. Thank you!” I really liked this gesture and it made me happy. Of course, I still have his present in my bedroom at my home in the Philippines."(Copenhagen, Denmark) . . . #gratitude #thanks #positivevibes  #parentslove #fatherlover  #heartsign #storytelling #gratitudeisthebestattitude #kindnessmatters #inspiring #parents #digithanks #gratitudedaily #storyteller  #copenhagen #denmark

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Gratitude Story from Jakarta, Indonesia

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If you wanted to send a thank-you note to someone in your life, who would it be, and what is one of your best memories of that person? I would like to send a thank you note to my wife, Ima. We have been together for almost 40 years. I am 63 years old and she is 59 years old. Since we have been together for a long time, we have had a lot of moments together. It’s hard to pick just one, but there is a memory that will always stick in my mind. I’m not a romantic person, and I’m not good at telling stories. I hope this will be appealing enough. It was 10 or 11 years ago. I was a heavy smoker. I could smoke 1-2 packages of cigarettes a day, and 1 package contained around 10 cigarettes. Like you, I always knew that smoking was a bad habit, but I did it every day. I felt calm when I smoked. There was a time that my smoking habit backfired on me. I started to cough, and was sick. It felt hard to breathe, so I went to the doctor and he said I should stop smoking. Like any other heavy smoker, it was hard to quit smoking. It was my wife who supported me while I tried to quit. She was the one who always yelled at me when I tried to smoke even only 1 or 2 cigarettes a day. It was a very hard process. It took almost a year for me to really stop smoking. However, my wife patiently accompanied me through the whole process. She supported me all the time. Sometimes, she asked me to wake up in the morning so that we could run together. She pushed me to start living a good and healthy life, because she didn’t want to lose me too soon. Her persistence and love was the best booster for me to quit smoking. You know, I would like to spend our life together. I want to see our sons married and having children. I want to play with our grandchildren. Thanks to my wife, I passed through the process and fully stopped smoking. It would have been an incredibly hard process if I tried to do it alone. She was always there and never stopped supporting me. Thank you. I love you, my angel. ( Jakarta,Indonesia)

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Gratitude Story from Banda Aceh, Indonesia

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If I were asked to send a thank-you note to someone, I would send it to my grandmother. "I loved her very much, and though she died two years ago, I have many wonderful memories with her. I was the only daughter in my family. My parents had only one child. My mom and dad are hardworking. They went to work in the morning and came home late in the afternoon; therefore, I was taken care of by my grandmother. In the morning, I was taken to grandma's house and was picked up after my parents came home from work. Grandmother lived alone in her house after grandfather died ten years ago. She is very glad that I visited her house every day. My grandmother is a kind, but disciplined woman; she is also a good cook. She often made my favorite: fried bananas. I liked them very much. Grandma is also a person who liked to spoil me, kept me company while I was sleeping, and advised me. My grandmother never yelled at me; in fact, she always defended me if my parents scolded me. She was the best grandmother. I really miss her." (Aceh, Indonesia) . . . #Aceh #Indonesia #gratitude #DigiThanks

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Gratitude Story from Kumasi, Ghana

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If you wanted to send a thank-you note to someone in your life, who would it be, and what is one of your best memories of that person?“My name is Tracy Amankwaa, and my mum is someone to whom I really wish to send a thank you note. “One of the best memories I have of my mum was when I turned ten years old. I was in boarding school during that period, but mum didn’t hesitate: she came to visit me in school with my dad and celebrated my birthday with me at school. They brought a birthday cake, drinks, and biscuits for my friends and me. They came along with lots of food which fed almost all of my classmates along with some friends in other classes. I was really happy that day, and the day still lingers in mind”, said Tracy. “Then when I came home for the holiday, out of the blue, my mum told my siblings and me to dress up because she was taking us out. Thinking about where exactly she was taking us was such a nice feeling,” Tracy said.  My mum took us to The Rattary Park Kumasi where there was a lot of food and many games to play. “I met a lot of kids, most of whom I later became friends with. That day was filled with fun and enjoyment. We took pictures, and my mum also met up with an old friend of hers, a friend who had also come along with her family. Both families exchanged pleasantries and had an amazing time together. On our way home, my mum told me it was part of my post-birthday celebration. It was an amazing experience. ( Kumasi, Ghana) . . . #ghana #motherlove #gratitude #birthday #kumasi

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